OkCupid does work like a cupid app and helps the users to find great connections. It shows that the users are beyond their profile pictures. The users can look for partners for casual dating or marriage based on their choices in this relationship app. It has one of a kind messaging system that lets users connect and have deep. I'm back on OkCupid after 5 years, and the changes to the app are confusing. I see a lot of guys saying 'I can't see likes, send me a message.' If I comment on their self-summary or one of their other sections, does that count as sending them a message, or do I have to.