I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months. We met on a dating site and we both agreed to take down our profiles. I asked if she was on others and she said no. I have had a bad feeling lately and decided to check a few and she is on several of them. One site in particular, she has 'no preference' marked on everything she is looking for in her mate except 'non-smoking' and I'm a smoker. It's like she wants a non-smoker but won't tell me the truth. She claims as long as I use mouth wash and gum along with washing my face, that she can tolerate it, but I have a feeling that she wants out because of it.
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Taking the smoking out of the equation, I feel that I am being betrayed on some level because she is 'posing' as single after making it appear that she wasn't on dating sites. I don't know how to approach this subject because I'm sure she will not like the fact that I went on sites to find her profile. What should I do?
Can you assess if she is active on these sites? She may still be on them because she is checking on whether you are still active? (This happened to me...)
Why not just ask her about why she is still on them and remind her that she said she would come off them?
One devious and not totally moral way of seeing if she is not totally committed to you, is to register yourself on one of these sites, in another name without a picture, from a new email account, and send her a few emails saying you are interested and eventually see if she will come on a date with you?... but I would not recommend this as it is deceptive - and you may not like the resulting mess when she finds out what you have done. You may not feel very good about it..
Oh and by the way, my GF is a smoker, and she uses mouthwash, cloves and mints...and she still smells like an old ashtray.☹️ Please try and give it up - even though it is very unlikely that smoking is the underlying problem..
Thanks for the comments. I will take it under advisement. Btw, does she know you see her as an 'ashtray' although she tries to masks the odor? But I understand what you are saying. Thanks again;o)
Has she mentioned anything to you about the smoking? Has she asked you to quit? If she has then for sure she is on the prow again.
(All smokers know they are seen by the rest of society as Ash-Trays.. what's the surprise!)
Yes, my GF knows😄 She is making a half-hearted attempt to give up, but I think she knows I will still love the non-smoky bits of her..Good luck.
I hear ya on the 'ashtray' comment. She might see it the same way but doesn't say anything, which explains why she might be on the dating sites. It's pretty unsettling to say the least. Thanks again.